I've noticed quite a few friend requests from people I hardly know, so you'll forgive me if I hold off approving, til I get a message from people.   As of late, MySpace has been getting bombed with countless friend requests, and the profiles of those requesting, usually turn out to be some commercial web sex site.    I'm very choosey..  If something shows plenty of reason that it's a scam, spam, or fraud, I report before I deny.  at least, when reported, the site admin have something to trace the flood to.

So....  Who am I?  Well, I'm a real person. (yes, a true human, not a AI program, a real flesh & blood person).  43 (getting close to 44), interests in all kinds of things, electronics, computers, robotics, radio, music, food, wine, volunteering, etc..

I'm also a Volunteer firefighter, Schoolbus driver, auto mechanic, electrician (drawback.. last two, self taught, well knowledged, but NO CERTIFICATION, or DEGREE). I believe in self reliability, and abhor those who fall back on Liability as a crutch.

I'm brutally honest (above should prove that.) alone, and yes, still looking..  quite a few heart aches along the way.   A bit of a commedian. Nerd, geek, good friend, philosopher (don't laugh. I've got  actual 43 years experience!)  guide, helper, etc... 

The hard part, is just finding balance in my life anymore.. As I attempt to get things working, there seems to be something else, or someone else who comes along, and unbalances it again. It's pretty frustraiting.

 so...  If you recently made a friend request, but it wasn't approved.. Tell me a bit about yourself. 

Worse I could do, is deny.. if I get to know little about you 1st, I'd gladly approve.